Our Stories
I learned to respect myself.
I was referred to SPIRITT’s CARE (California Access to Recovery Efforts) program for using drugs and alcohol during school. I worked the program for a while and I was better, but my parents thought I was still acting out. I continued the counseling which focused on substance abuse, effective communication skills, conflict resolution, and self-esteem. The therapy helped me and my parents to talk more openly and more often.
I chose the wrong friends, was making bad decisions and I was drinking and using drugs because I didn’t think much of myself. Now, I’m doing much better in school, made some new friends and I am getting along better with
my parents - they think it’s cool.
> Ricardo
I can be responsible!
Over the last 18 months, I’ve had to face things I never wanted to face. Without SPIRITT’s help, I believe I would have continued to use, get arrested, go to jail and return again to another rehab – never taking control of my own choices – like choosing recovery over addiction. Who knows where I would be right now – most likely in jail, homeless or maybe dead.
I have a great amount of gratitude and the utmost respect for the commitment and concern you have shown me, helping my recovery from marijuana, meth and tequila. I had given up my family for drugs and getting high. Now, I have a 9-month-old granddaughter I want to know. I want to be an important part of her life.
I have seen a different way to live and it is up to me to continue to take action.
I am committed to doing whatever it takes to make my life meaningful. My granddaughter thanks you and so do I.
> Daniel
I can now depend on myself to be resourceful.
I just left an abusive relationship and was alone with my two children [3 and 6]. I had no money and no job. I entered the CARIÑO PFF program and an in-home counselor visited us for six months. During my time in the program, I took several classes for parents.
My counselor gave me information about the various ways to put my life back together and the first group I joined was PALS (Parents As Leaders and Support). I met other parents who were struggling like me. Then, I took the Incredible Years parenting class and later joined the Parent Advisory Committee (PAC) where I’m finishing a 9-week Advocacy course.
I am thankful to SPIRITT’s wonderful referrals to play therapy for my son at the Covina Development Center and domestic violence counseling at YWCA Wings. I am doing very well. I’m attending college and employed as a Clerical Assistant. Recently, SPIRITT asked me to become a co-leader of the PALS group and I started a mentorship program at the agency to become a Family Advocate. I had helped plan a Saturday conference with other parent leaders that was free to the community. I continue to learn and be involved. My children and I are very happy.
> Erika
I’ve learned to be resiliant and bounce back!
I’d been a drug addict for over 13 years and was addicted to three different drugs. I’d been arrested many times. The last ended with a 6-year prison term. The terms of release included enrollment in a six-month drug program and three years probation. I was homeless, and unemployed and had been told that I could never change. Given my criminal history, I thought no one would ever trust me to care for my son who was living with my family. I always hoped we could be together.
Fortunately, I had a positive attitude, and was able to attend SPIRITT drug and alcohol program meetings and I remain drug free. Determined to regain custody of my son, I worked with the SPIRITT counselor to achieve my goals: completed my program, rented a small apartment, landed a part-time job and was granted limited visitation privileges with my son. Soon, I hope to regain full custody of my son.
All my angels helped turn my life around.
> Claudia and Joel
Recovery feels wonderful!
I was unemployed and dependent on welfare. My children had been sleeping on mattresses on the floor and had their clothes in boxes.
After enrolling in the CARIÑO program, I was met with kindness and understanding. The staff helped me to overcome many of my barriers and continue my education – I was in the process of working towards my bachelor’s in psychology.
Through the support of my in-home clinician and the staff at CARIÑO PFF, I was given the courage and strength to overcome many fears and barriers that I
put up because I never felt worthy of being anything in life.
Now I have more courage. I successfully graduated from the CARIÑO
program and I have continued to stay involved by joining the PALS (Parents
as Leaders & Support) group. Also, I am now employed and working full time.
Thanks to my in-home clinician and the staff for believing in me when I did not believe in myself.
> Rocio
Family Graduates Testimonials
What did you learn as a result of your participation with SPIRITT Family Services?
- When I began with SPIRITT all I was looking for was help for an apartment and what I received was unconditional support. Not only did they help me with what I needed but they also offered me different types of support. They helped me by offering support groups to me, for my children, and even for my husband. I love all the groups they offer because they provide a lot of information.
- I am a single mother and my two children are my biggest treasures. Thanks to this program and my therapist, a very professional person. I am very grateful for my therapist; I was able to improve my lifestyle and changed my mentality in regards to the development and education of my children. Thank you so much!
- I learned how to become a better person with myself and my family. It also showed me how to be patient as a parent. In addition, it opens your mind to the responsibility we have in hand (our kids).
- I learned more than anything that family is very important and the attention we give our children. How important it is to talk to our children, play with them, eat with them and understand them.
- I learned that there is always a solution to a problem and all families and relationships take hard work and go through hard times and its how we work together on making it through.
- I learned that good people exist and they are willing to offer some of their time to listen to us and find solutions to our problems. Thank you and may God bless you always. There are a lot of people like me that need your services, I am very grateful that this program exists.
- We learned that with support and talking to someone you can stay positive and sober and just keep striving to be the best person and parent.
What aspect of the program was most helpful to you?
- Counselors accommodate their time to help those who need it the most, like me. They offer care, hospitality, making us feel like we are family to them. Thank you so much for your program.
- You all will definitely always have a special place in my heart. Thank you so much!
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